A child who is on the autism spectrum is likely to be dependent on routine. The holidays can be difficult for him as he thrives on things being predictable and the same. He will probably be overly sensitive to sensory input (touch, sight, smell, taste, and sound).
Difficulty with Change in Routine
Because kids on the spectrum are always looking for familiar things to make sense of their world, the jam packed holiday calendar may present some problems. Often there is too much on the to-do list too much on the special events list, and too little that is the norm. Look for ways to keep the schedule as much the same as possible. Look for ways to trim back on the holiday running. Talk often and early about changes that are unavoidable. Watch for signs of overload: acting out and general distress. Consider each activity individually. Tweaking the schedule as the days rush by is well worth the time and effort.
Difficulty with Sensory Input
The holidays represent sensory input that varies from day to day life through the year. Some children on the autism spectrum are intrigued with lights. They may gaze at the lights as if mesmerized by them. Something that is child is overly “obsessed” with is sometimes referred to as “stim”. Some sensory input can be calming to the child on the autism spectrum. The repetitive motion of a train that circles around and around the Christmas tree, the blinking holiday lights, and the dangling decorations that move with the movement of air might be calming. Parents and teachers look for a balance of input that is calming and yet socially appropriate.
Other kinds of sensory input might not be so pleasant for the child who is autistic. Foods that are considered holiday traditions by the rest of the family, might not be something the child wants, much less welcomes, on his plate. The reasons for this intolerance of food can come from its color, texture, or taste. Consider having lots of the child’s tried and true favorites to maintain “routine” at mealtime.
The adorable matching sweaters for holiday pictures may not be welcomed by the sibling who is on the autism spectrum. Tags are often the culprits, but in the case of sweaters, it could be the over all scratchy feeling of the knit.
Watching for overload and making a few changes in the holiday expectations can make the season enjoyable for the whole family.
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